A love bill for Butterfly
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

A love bill for Butterfly

Imagine if included in your utility bills, your grocery budget, your parking app or TTC pass, you paid a monthly amount to a group of people that gave you and your community back so much more.

We hate paying giant telecommunications companies and greedy grocery chains, but what about a monthly bill that makes us warm inside when we pay it because it connects us to community?

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My First Leather Hood
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

My First Leather Hood

I sat down on wooden stool in front of a mirror, while Carey stood beside me, loosening the leather lacing and opening up the back of the hood. As he told me what a great piece it was, my attention settled on his hands moving deftly over the leather, hands that had made countless leather strap-on harnesses for queer freaks…

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Silent Duck
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

Silent Duck

SILENT DUCK: The Anal Fisting hand position is called the Silent Duck.

Fist fucking
Handballing
Orifice stretching

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Davey’s Punishment (Part 2)
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

Davey’s Punishment (Part 2)

Davey arrived home, the diaper he wore causing him to waddle into the living room where his Aunt Violet (his guardian since his mother's death) asked why he was late home. Had he missed the bus? Given the letter he bore for her from Miz Darling, Davey decided there wasn't anything to be gained from outright concealment.

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MedFet Duos with Aspasia
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

MedFet Duos with Aspasia

MedFet duos with Contessa Aspasia are my dream scenes for 2024!


We’ve been sceneing, scheming, and sessioning, creating, composing, and curating together since circa 2018.

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Cleaning practices
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

Cleaning practices

Everything that is used (or touched) during a session is methodically cleaned before putting away. For surfaces and toys that haven’t come into direct contact with bodily fluids, I use a botanical technology…

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My kink goals 2023
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

My kink goals 2023

Here it is… a little late in the year but I’ve given a lot of thought to this and my Kinky Goals for 2023 are…

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From a curious 25yr old's perspective
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

From a curious 25yr old's perspective

Since childhood I have subconsciously been attracted to dominant female personalities, but I only became conscious of it once I discovered the terms "Femdom" and"Dominatrix" through exploring online kink but I was curious about what it would be like to have a first-hand BDSM dungeon experience.

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My kink goals 2022
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

My kink goals 2022

Since the pandemic hit, I haven’t been inspired to write up a list of kinky goals to share with my submissives. So many plans were cancelled and many people got sick. It has just been a depressing couple of years. Toronto is feeling exciting again, I have an upcoming BDSM trip planned, and I’m finally feeling the urge to try new things or to go deeper into activities I enjoy.

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Forced-bi Interview
Mistress Violet Mays Mistress Violet Mays

Forced-bi Interview

All right, all right! As the New Year approaches, I have a special guest for you Forced-Bi perverts!


She’s a stunning Forced-Bi practitioner who has also made a name for herself in various, well… I think the phrase is “medical fetishism.”…

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